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				non-virgin gf confusion
  
				I have had a new girlfriend for about 2 1/2 months now. She is a non-virgin, while I myself am a virgin. As far as I know, despite having sex with 2 guys, she is clean as far as STDs go. I am not sure exactly if she would want anything more than vaginal intercourse. I guess the question is do I have a risk of infection despite me going to use a condom when we eventually have intercourse? Any other precautions that I should take? 
 
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			Luckygohappy 
			
			
			
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				ok....
  
				I'm really against you two having sex at this point, because it seems like you don't know her all that well. Ya'll need to talk about sex before it happens; talk about any STD's she may have gotten (have her get tested, if it makes you feel more comfortable), birth control, and ask her what kind of sex she wants, since you're unsure.  
 
Just because she's not a virgin doesn't mean you have an obligation to sleep with her or anything. Same goes if she wants to do anything else sexually that you're uncomfortable with. 
				
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